(From my book of Aphorisms- 'Thoughts To Make You Think' By Helen Leigh - http://thoughtstomakeyouthink.doomby.com - Chapter One - Personal Development) If it's your Family and Friends then you stick up for them and defend them, no matter what. If someone is telling you something negative about them, then you stop them straight away and tell them, 'No, they wouldn't do that', even if it sounds plausible or you feel you have to be polite, Don't be polite, you tell them that you don't want to hear them talking about your loved one in that way again. If it's your family and friends then they can make many mistakes and keep making them, and you will always be there for them, not just make one mistake and their out! No matter how huge it is. Even in your head, if they have done something that seems wrong to you, you say to yourself, 'I know they didn't mean it', defend them, have their back, even if your hurt, say it becau...
(From my book of Aphorisms- 'Thoughts To Make You Think' By Helen Leigh - http://thoughtstomakeyouthink.doomby.com - Chapter One - Personal Development) There are two ways you can handle your problems: Victor or Victim Mentality. A Victim, implodes, takes the problem personally like it is a reflection on them and as an attack and then keeps, 'TRYING' to either make it better or be understood and usually to the something that caused this problem in the first place that doesn't care, which results in the Victim becoming Emotional: Angry, Hysterical, Depressed or violent. There is no detached awareness. The Victor Mentality, see's the problem and knows where it is coming from and doesn't react. The Victor Stands their ground and does not entertain the problem, but instead waits, watches and then resolves it having analysed how the problem is coming in.
And there I lay, my back touching the Earth, And I looked up, and Three Huge Trees were before me, Like the three fingers of God, Touching the Earth, Touching my Being... And the Awesomeness of these Finger Trees, Humbled me in their Magnificence, As they shook and hissed with the dancing breeze.
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