REVOLVING AROUND YOURSELF:

 
(From my book of Aphorisms- 'Thoughts To Make You Think' By Helen Leigh - http://thoughtstomakeyouthink.doomby.com  - Chapter One - Personal Development)
 



When everything revolves around you and only your perspective and how you feel, then that is all you will have room in your life for... You.





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