IT'S YOU:


(From my book of Aphorisms- 'Thoughts To Make You Think' By Helen Leigh - http://thoughtstomakeyouthink.doomby.com  - Chapter One - Personal Development)



It's not that your Relationship(s) take work; 'YOU' take work.


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